“Why Does Everything Fall on Me?” - How to Lead Without Carrying the Whole School

Have you ever caught yourself wondering, “Why does everything fall on me?” In this episode, we’re unpacking one of the biggest mindset traps principals slip into—the belief that they must carry the entire school on their shoulders. You’ll learn why highly capable, high-capacity leaders often become the default problem solver, how this pattern unintentionally trains your staff to rely on you, and what it takes to shift out of that role.

We’ll explore the Problem-Solver Trap, the thoughts that keep you catching every task, and how delegation becomes a powerful form of capacity building rather than “giving things away.” By the end, you’ll walk away with practical reflection questions, identity shifts, and delegation strategies that help you stop firefighting and start leading with clarity, calm, and confidence. If you’re ready to stop carrying everything yourself—and start building a school full of empowered problem solvers—this episode is for you.

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“Why Does Everything Fall on Me?” - How to Lead Without Carrying the Whole School